Pros and Cons of being married

He portrays marriage as protection from loneliness: constant companionship, shared routines and memories, and convenient sex without repeated dating rituals. He calls monogamy and verbal fights drawbacks, but says cooling off and reconciling can strengthen relationships; openness is suggested over cheating. His wife’s family still rejects him; he claims indifference, then cooks Korean pork while recalling a 2010 ex and jealousy-driven Korean study.

Marriage is framed as practical convenience and emotional security, while autonomy and family belonging are defensively minimized.