I was seduced by a married Japanese woman

At 24, he met a 32-year-old married Japanese woman on Mixi while lonely and disappointed by guesthouse social life. Dates escalated from karaoke kissing to unprotected sex and roughly 40 love-hotel nights over three months, paid by her. She disclosed depression, severe self-inflicted burns, suicidal statements, and a loveless marriage; he refused her £4,000 offer, seeing no future.

Loneliness and Japan-centered romantic seeking again escalated into intense intimacy, while practical incompatibility eventually prompted withdrawal.