11 October 2017

Meeting married women in Japan on Tinder

11 October 2017 · 15:57

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Summary

Three married Japanese women matched him on Tinder; all initially wanted companionship, but one disappeared and two withdrew over marriage, children, distance, and complications. He links the reversals to sexual directness—love hotels, hookups, and his Amway anecdote— believing these made him seem like a playboy. He seeks a taboo affair with a married mother, denies being a homewrecker, and anticipates an overnight stay with another woman he kissed.

Insight

He treats failed connections as presentation problems while deliberately pursuing novelty, taboo, and sexual excitement.