I hooked up with an American girl yesterday...

Before arriving in Japan, he paid for Tinder Plus and arranged backup dates; after Tomoko, he began meeting several women. On October 9, he met a 24-year-old half-Japanese American woman, had consensual sex, and lost his erection with a condom. Without a condom, arousal returned and he ejaculated externally; fearing STI risk, he rejected her and planned a 36-year-old date.

Rapid dating repeats online idealization, with desire hinging on novelty, language, attraction, and condom use.