Why getting married in japan sucks

Despite lingering hurt over the Australian-guy issue, he and his girlfriend continue pursuing marriage, viewing the relationship as worth saving. A Tokyo Certificate of No Impediment appointment is booked; travel and fees exceed $300, which he condemns as pointless bureaucracy. Two Japanese witnesses have refused, citing the five-month relationship, visa-use concerns, secrecy from parents, and insufficient closeness.

Marriage plans have advanced administratively, but social isolation and secrecy are now obstructing their completion.