It's time to move on

After a week of obsessive jealousy, he and his girlfriend calmly discussed detailed questions; hearing answers left him relieved. She disclosed the Australian ex filmed their sex and once had sex with her in their apartment; she initially lied. He fears the ex may discover his channel or send sex videos, but declares this his final discussion unless contacted.

His reassurance is temporary: secrecy, imagined threats, and racial comparison continue to expose unresolved insecurity.