Thinking about paying for sex

In Japan last year, he considered paid sex after failing to find a girlfriend, but travel, intimidating venues, and high cost deterred him. After researching soaplands, he compared consensual paid sex with massage and relationships, proposing anonymous app-based access without human interaction. He fears prostitution could become a weekly expense, comparing its unearned gratification with his past £500 World of Warcraft gold addiction.

He remains torn between effortless intimacy and needing mutual desire and earned effort for satisfaction.