marriage update - my sex life is over

A fourth yeast infection this year affected both spouses; they stopped sex for a week, then waited through her period. After recovery, he retained erectile ability and masturbated, but sex felt unnecessary; his cookies burned paper and emerged undercooked, scone-like. He worries passion has ended, asks how to rekindle intimacy, and fears repeating his wife's past erectile-dysfunction divorce.

Sexual intensity declines into routine, while libido persists and marital insecurity becomes explicit.