Why I'll never get married (again)

He rejects remarriage except for immigration benefits, arguing legal marriage creates social and legal entanglement with high failure risk. His Japanese marriage followed two or three months dating, lasted about two years, and may not have been legally dissolved. He now favors partners with existing visas, slower dating, and independent immigration routes rather than marrying during the honeymoon phase.

His Japan marriage ideal has reversed into autonomy, caution, and mobility without legal commitment.