I’m looking for a girlfriend

Though still technically married, he calls himself single and begins seeking an exclusive, serious relationship, rejecting waiting for divorce. He wants fluent English, shared interests, consent for YouTube coverage, dark humor, and a non-smoking, nonreligious, physically active partner. He rejects his former Japanese/Asian fixation, prefers introverted quirky companions, and dislikes crowds, strangers, and sustained social interaction.

His relationship criteria reveal tension between seeking intimacy and strongly defending solitude, autonomy, and social avoidance.