I'm just looking for love

He rejects the “sexpat” label: Japan includes sex, but he seeks love, affection, mutual commitment, and a serious relationship. Two 4–5-hour video calls confirm her identity, revive spoken Japanese, and reconnect him with years of study. Despite warnings and prior failed relationships, he books leave, researches flights and hotels, and plans to meet her, accepting uncertainty.

Reciprocal-love seeking now motivates a risky Japan return, reversing his earlier declared closure.