My wife thinks I’m cheating on her...

Wife caught him messaging a Japanese woman, accused him of cheating, demanded access; he defended his privacy. She threatened breakup but stopped his departure; by morning they were normal, and he spent four hours alone during earthquake confinement. He admitted wanting other women, rejected one-sided openness, chose monogamy, and later gave Alto’s Odyssey a 7/10 review.

Privacy and jealousy repeatedly trigger breakup threats, followed by quick reconciliation without resolving incompatible expectations.