Why I can’t live in Japan ever again

He declares he will likely never return to Japan, ending a lifelong dream after 15 years of visits and visa attempts. Two years as a spouse fulfilled the dream, but boredom, language-heavy contracts, visa constraints, and dependence on his wife made Japan unsustainable. He now values the UK’s countryside, quiet housing, car-based independence, familiar British food, and easier work and financial opportunities.

This marks a clear reversal from youthful idealization and repeated relocation efforts toward local autonomy and stability.