15 January 2022

Dating in Japan - The worst date I ever had

15 January 2022 · 9:41

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Summary

Five years earlier, he met Tomoko on HelloTalk, ghosted a single-mother girlfriend, and quit petrol-station work after reaching 5,000 subscribers. In Japan, he pursued Tinder dates before meeting Tomoko in Kobe, where she appeared far older than her claimed age of 27. Despite feeling deceived, he initiated sex; she later admitted being 40–42, viewers defended her, and they never met again.

Insight

It reinforces rapid online intimacy, abrupt replacement, oversharing, and disappointment when fantasy meets reality.