Why I hate Dating

At 32, he estimates nearly 100 dates since 2010; about 95% felt boring, except Mila and a Korean woman. He says attraction is usually absent within seconds, then he cannot end dates, once leaving karaoke and blocking her afterward. He prefers planned, activity-based dates, dislikes restaurant silences, and would rather have sex first before pursuing companionship or travel.

Dating becomes an inefficient gateway to physical intimacy, continuing his pattern of avoiding emotional connection.