First day in Germany - HUGE DISAPPOINTMENT

He flew to Germany, met an online acquaintance, ate Mexican food, walked in freezing weather, and returned with her to a hotel. She repeatedly messaged and called her ex-boyfriend, then left after 5–10 minutes, saying he guilt-tripped her and she was not ready. He reports no intimacy, feels insulted, and spent £140 on travel plus hotels; he may stay longer or return home.

Another escape-through-romance plan collapses, leaving him retreating into online routines and indecision rather than exploring Germany.