15 November 2017

Approach Anxiety - I tried

15 November 2017 · 11:58

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Summary

Yesterday, he livestreamed three hours in a Japanese city centre, intending to ask strangers for directions, but approached nobody. He feared being ignored or disturbing people more than rejection, made excuses, and alcohol brought tiredness and depression. A mistaken-identity train-station encounter remains a vivid trigger; he now requests clothing colours or photos before meetings.

Insight

His goal is confidence in ordinary interaction, not primarily dating, but romantic targets make anxiety acute.