20 November 2016

My Sexuality - revealed

20 November 2016 · 8:08

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Summary

After nearly a year on YouTube, repeated private messages prompt him to clarify that he identifies as straight and prefers women. He recounts a pushy guesthouse encounter with a bisexual Japanese man: oral sex in a park, little arousal, and refusal of intercourse. He rejects homophobia while admitting discomfort with male same-sex affection, questions marriage’s value, and digresses into animal reproductive anatomy.

Insight

Firm heterosexual self-definition coexists with loneliness, pressure, and conflicted responses to an unexpected same-sex encounter.