My Girlfriend hasn't Messaged me in 4 weeks...

A British woman he dated since May—six or seven dates, including hotel sex—has not messaged for four weeks, suggesting ghosting. Dates became strained by silence, limited attraction, and requests to relax at his home, which he refused to protect privacy. Their final deer-park date felt distant—no handholding, little response, awkward goodbye; he then asked whether she still wanted to meet.

Her interest appears to decline while his ambivalence persists, despite motivating his driving lessons and eventual license.