13 May 2019

meeting the Essex girl

13 May 2019 · 11:11

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Summary

Before meeting, Daniel prepared clean clothes, deodorant, condoms, crisps, headphones and passport, while worrying about heat, attraction and rejection. They met in London from approximately 1–4 p.m.; she left for work, and crowds limited filming and made Daniel self-conscious. He found her kind, attractive, well-dressed and easy to talk with, but felt no immediate love; both agreed to meet again, perhaps at a museum.

Insight

A calm, nonsexual first date contrasts with earlier hotel-first encounters, while Daniel remains uncertain but willing to let feelings develop.