7 April 2019
Burying my dad’s ashes
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Summary
Family buries the father’s ashes beneath an Acer Princeton Gold tree; he calls the transformation from person to powder surreal. Family helps bury the ashes; rain is welcomed as useful, while soil is packed and the tree’s roots are watered. He demonstrates fireplace maintenance and layered fire-building, recalling earlier failed attempts while his father was hospitalized.
Insight
Bereavement shifts from burial disbelief toward preserving family routines and practical household responsibilities.