I'm a jealous and insecure person

Extreme jealousy over male contacts and phone secrecy led him to snoop, threaten, and physically struggle with a French ex. He links preferring older women to wanting partners’ attention concentrated on him, and admits Australian-guy jealousy was partly sexually arousing. He buys a $60 gas yakiniku grill; it heats quickly, but fatty pork caused smoke and grease splatter, earning 7/10.

Jealousy remains both a relationship destabilizer and, contradictorily, a source of sexual stimulation.