I had a huge argument with my wife

Videos suggested he dated women after meeting his wife; he confessed, and their discussion lasted until 4 a.m. before reconciliation. He refused private videos on trust/privacy grounds; after she ignored messages, he searched for hours and found her drinking. After five or six videos, her cheating suspicion eased and they reconciled; she demanded he avoid contacting the man he Googled.

The reconciliation depended on disclosure, reinforcing a recurring cycle of secrecy, jealousy, confrontation, and temporary reassurance.